actually hot take
It's sometimes frustrating for me to hear people try very hard to conflate every kind of otherness about themselves with gender, or to describe as being "beyond" gender because it is an unrelated portion of their identity.
You don't have to subordinate gender to other things in order for those things to be important. It's okay for two things to be equally deeply embedded.
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